Dating an officer in the military
He's an officer so he's not your typical dumb meathead blue collar guy out of high school or something - went to an excellent university for undergrad, comes from money, very smart and funny and intelligent. Sometimes he's sweet and gallant, other times he's a jerk. It is hard to give you advice without knowing either of you but these are things you should discuss with him. He definitely has a track record of being faithful (I know some of his friends) and he was raised strictly and I can definitely see him being strict with kids.
It is a lot of work to break down those barriers and gain enough trust for him open up and be vulnerable. You need to understand this and realize how difficult it is. However, for those who do, there is nothing wrong with that.Perpetual overthinker, good-doer, book nerd, wine connoisseur and amateur world traveler.